Anonymous: hi, i'm sorry, i know this isn't really an advice thingy but what's happened to ambrosya? i miss her :( is she going to come back to tumblr?
rui got terminated and she’s now back as viqilance so check her out? x
Anonymous: bby i talked to her thanks so much! we're completely fine and i told her why i was mad at her, she told me about her problems and everything's fine yay thank you so much bby! how're you?
oh yay glad that i could help and i’m ok i guess, if you want to talk then ask on my personal here x
-mimi
Anonymous: actually i'm just going to talk to her what's the worst that can happen? i miss her way too much too so wish me luck!
oh yay for you and good luck, tell me how it turns out yea? x
-mimi
Anonymous: what i said was my friend will listen and she knows that i'm not having an easy time right now but the thing is, she doesn't know how bad it is.... but i still wonder why she hasn't asked if i'm okay.. maybe she doesn't care.. and i don't really want to make the first move because i'm scared and also i hate being the one to bow down...
i get what you mean about hating to ‘bow down’ and maybe she doesn’t understand. i guess not everyone know’s exactly what it feels like to be sad, or if they do it’s a different kind of sad. she may or may not care but i honestly think that she still does but she too doesn’t want to bow down and or might just not understand the way you feel. if you don’t want to make the ‘first move’ then don’t and just forget about it but if it really means something to you then you shouldn’t have to feel like ‘bowing down’ and you’d be ok with it. just do what you feel like and don’t force yourself to do anything you’re not comfortable with if you don’t think it will help x
-mimi
Anonymous: Mimi - thank you so much for putting all this time into answering the questions! you have such a great heart xo
awww thank you but i like answering questions x
-mimi
Anonymous: you keep ignoring my messages.... :(
no what i’ve answered all of them :c check again? x
-mimi
Anonymous: bby recently my life hasn't been going that well and i've been crying a lot, however, i am talking to one person about it but i really want to talk to an old friend who i think hates me but i'm scared she won't want to :'( i just feel like my life is falling apart and i don't have the people i want the most
hi darling, firstly cry your heart out. let it all out. you’ll feel relieved after and ‘lighter’ if that makes any sense. most people have felt the way you do so if that old friend was really a friend they’d forget the hate and listen. ask your old friend how she is and start small talk then if you’re comfortable just ask her if you can tell her something and pour it all out. it’s hard not having the people you want or maybe even need but you’ll get through it and meet new people. if the people who aren’t in your life anymore are worth it they’ll be back eventually and if they care about you, you should be able to talk to them comfortably. hope this helps and just ‘wait out the storm’ and then ‘dance in the rain’, you’ll appreciate things more after it’s over x
-mimi
Anonymous: and i apologize for not mentioning it, but would it be possible to get more than one perspective? It's fine if it's not possible. Oh and i wanna say thanks to you girls for doing this xx
most likely we’ll give our different perspectives on all questions unless our opinions are the same ahaha and you’re very welcome x
-mimi
Anonymous: So i really hate myself - but hey, doesn't almost everyone these days? Anyway, i don't think i'm depressed, i'm just not happy. I want to die but i'm so pathetic i can't even do it. Isn't that ironic? The girl who wants to kill herself can't do it. My grades have dropped tremendously since i started feeling this way - i just honestly don't see the point in trying to concentrate on my future when i don't even see myself in it. I don't exactly know what i'm saying, but what should i do?
hi darling, everyone hates themselves. well most people. and it’s fine actually but it would be nice to love yourself isn’t it? and it’s good that you’re not depressed but if it gets to that point then you should try and get some help. many people want to die but not do anything about it. it’s like you won’t go jump but if a car were about to hit you, you wouldn’t know if you’d move or not? don’t kill yourself now. the fact that you’re questioning it means that you don’t want to and it’ll be too late to even regret it. about your grades, the fact that you realise it is a good sign. i’m guessing that you feel them getting worse and worse but you can’t even see the point in trying to do something about it? i think you should just try to distract yourself and find something you like doing, and not focus on your future as much-just learn to love yourself a bit more and concentrate on work and other scary things later. i know that it is actually quite irresponsible of me to tell you to forget about your grades but you can’t do anything about the fact that you don’t care about your future when your present isn’t too good. focus on you. watch movie/tv series marathons, eat ice-cream, shop, paint, draw, go for runs; do whatever you want and learn to love yourself then go and focus on grades wen things are better. i understand what you’re saying so dw x
-mimi
